As our 50th Anniversary series continues, Cackie Upchurch explores the essential connection between conversational prayer and meaningful group discussion.
Many years ago, I knew a religious sister who was a ball of energy. She was short in stature and wore very thick glasses as well as a mischievous smile. When I knew her, she was probably in her eighties and had been facilitating various small groups using Little Rock Scripture Study for some time.
Sr. Loyola once confessed to me that her groups over the years didn’t like to use conversational forms of prayer. When I probed a little deeper, inquiring if this was true of all of her groups, her “yes” provided an insight. Leaning across the table, with a twinkle in my eye, I asked her, “Sister, who is the common denominator in all those groups?” She sheepishly replied, with her smile getting wider, “Me?”
It was Sr. Loyola who was uncomfortable with prayer that was conversational and shared aloud with others. She was afraid it would put people “on the spot” or that the occasional silences would be hard to manage. In fact, she had not yet tried to pray conversationally in her groups. It was easier for them (for her, to be sure) to use rote prayer and so they began each session with an Our Father, a Hail Mary, and a Glory Be. Mind you, there’s nothing wrong with that at all, but how we pray together sets the tone for the discussion that will follow.
In my experience using LRSS, as well as working with groups all over the United States and in several other countries, Bible study is most alive and productive when group members use the questions provided as a springboard to dive deeper. While rote prayer is helpful and most appropriate in many settings, it does not necessarily create a climate for exploring how our lives intersect with Scripture. If we pray to God in our own words, and if we learn to listen to each other’s prayer, the group dynamics more naturally engage us on the level of faith and not just intellect.